Thanks!I usually leave all the blog postings to Kelly (we all know why!!)....but today is my turn. It won't be written as eloquently as her blogs...but this is from the heart, so here goes..I want to thank each and everyone of you for all your thoughts and prayers. I am so very blessed to be surrounded by such wonderful family, coworkers and friends (one in the same). The phone calls, e-mails and comments on the blog have kept me going throughout this long and difficult process. The thought of stepping off that plane and being back home brings tears to my eyes...Then again, tears come easily to me these days. The endless sight of little old ladies with their cups in hand begging for change..all the other kids in Carson's orphanage who won't be adopted..and last but not least all the homeless animals that roam the streets. I will never forget this place nor it's people and all the struggles they face on a daily basis..
A special thank you is in order for Dr. K. Conaty. He and I had a conversation while working together in MRI one day, over 2 1/2 years ago... I remember that day well .He told me about adopting his daughters from the Ukraine and that he was a facilitator for families that wished to adopt from that country. Little did I know it would take this long, nor that I would stay in this country for nearly 7 weeks to get my child..but I have to say that every time I see Carson...the wait has been well worth it. Dr Conaty did give me fair warning about the trials and tribulations of adopting from the Ukraine...so I kind of had an idea about what I was getting into when I accepted this adventure... I will forever be grateful for all your support not only since my arrival here but for all the paper work and e-mails you had to walk me through to get to this point. I am so thankful and I already love your daughters...not only for translating for me but for the great help they will be to Carson in his transition to a whole new world. From the bottom of my heart...Thank you
So many things in my life that seemed so important before.... just aren't anymore. I see things so differently now..through the eyes of my son. He is the most precious thing in the world and will forever be my best friend.. I only hope that I can be half the parent to him that my parents are to me..I'm the luckiest daughter in the world..I thank God daily for the journey of my life because after 45 years I finally know what my purpose is...to be the best mother I can be to Carson and to give him the opportunity to have a wonderful life.
I mention Kelly Wilson last only because words do not come so easily for someone that has given up so much to be here with me. How do you thank someone for giving up 7-8 weeks of their life to be in a 3rd world country (with no a/c, not many smiling faces to see, barely anyone speaks English, not to mention we are stared at on a daily basis)... so I could make it through this place...I will forever be grateful and know that God worked things out how they should be. I will always have this blog to share with Carson so that he will know the true experience, and the lengths we went through to get him to America, what a better way to show him than through her words and photography..
I am not certain when I will return home with my son. The process is ongoing. I look forward to thanking each of you personally..but for now..from the bottom of my heart.. Thank you…
The last thing I will say is..the one person that I wish could meet my incredible son the most, would be my brother Randy...but I know he is smiling from above......
Always, Dede
A special thank you is in order for Dr. K. Conaty. He and I had a conversation while working together in MRI one day, over 2 1/2 years ago... I remember that day well .He told me about adopting his daughters from the Ukraine and that he was a facilitator for families that wished to adopt from that country. Little did I know it would take this long, nor that I would stay in this country for nearly 7 weeks to get my child..but I have to say that every time I see Carson...the wait has been well worth it. Dr Conaty did give me fair warning about the trials and tribulations of adopting from the Ukraine...so I kind of had an idea about what I was getting into when I accepted this adventure... I will forever be grateful for all your support not only since my arrival here but for all the paper work and e-mails you had to walk me through to get to this point. I am so thankful and I already love your daughters...not only for translating for me but for the great help they will be to Carson in his transition to a whole new world. From the bottom of my heart...Thank you
So many things in my life that seemed so important before.... just aren't anymore. I see things so differently now..through the eyes of my son. He is the most precious thing in the world and will forever be my best friend.. I only hope that I can be half the parent to him that my parents are to me..I'm the luckiest daughter in the world..I thank God daily for the journey of my life because after 45 years I finally know what my purpose is...to be the best mother I can be to Carson and to give him the opportunity to have a wonderful life.
I mention Kelly Wilson last only because words do not come so easily for someone that has given up so much to be here with me. How do you thank someone for giving up 7-8 weeks of their life to be in a 3rd world country (with no a/c, not many smiling faces to see, barely anyone speaks English, not to mention we are stared at on a daily basis)... so I could make it through this place...I will forever be grateful and know that God worked things out how they should be. I will always have this blog to share with Carson so that he will know the true experience, and the lengths we went through to get him to America, what a better way to show him than through her words and photography..
I am not certain when I will return home with my son. The process is ongoing. I look forward to thanking each of you personally..but for now..from the bottom of my heart.. Thank you…
The last thing I will say is..the one person that I wish could meet my incredible son the most, would be my brother Randy...but I know he is smiling from above......
Always, Dede
12 comments:
.......lyubov' ko ty....
..ty chudesnyi....
...one more thing...
...bog bystrota.....
mills
Dede,
As a sit here, with tears running down my cheeks, words cannot express how incredibly happy I am for you. That precious little boy has no idea how blessed he is that God chose you to me his Momma.
I know his sweet little hand on our face must be the best feeling in the world.
Please know your safe return is in my prayers.
And yes you are right...he is smiling from above!
With love,
Starla
Dede, this is Kelly's brother Jeff. I think it is fantastic that this all worked out for you. My former employer adopted a boy from Russia and the stories he tells of adopting Cooper are incredible. Carson is such a cute boy and I am sure you will be a terrific mother. Thanks for keeping Kelly out of trouble too...give her a hug for me and I hope the 3 of you have a safe jouney home.
Dede, Your last post had me in tears. I am so happy for you and Carson. You're already on your way to becoming a great mom...you recognize the priorities. You've been blessed with a beautiful son. I can't wait to see you again and to meet the little guy.
Love ya,
Barbara F.
Dede, I only thought the other posts brought me to tears. They do not even come close to the tears that are streaming rapidly down my face right now. I'm so happy for all of you. To hear you say "my son" is just simply amazing. There is absolute no better feeling than being a "mom" and there is no job more important than being a good loving parent. Carson is so lucky to get to have a mom like you and you are so lucky to have been given him. God has blessed you guys. Stay strong. Know we are all following along on your journey and we are praying for you guys. You are never far from our thoughts. I can't wait to meet Carson and Kelly, she is one great friend!!!
TracyC
Dede,
It has been heart warming and touching to read your blog over the past few weeks. We met your family this past week because we saw them at your house and were worried about you. We were excited to hear about your journey and Peyton is already talking about the little boy who is moving in next door. I can truly tell you that all of your struggles over the past week are just the beginning but the struggles to come will be the sweet joyous struggles of raising a child. Good for you!!!!! Congrats!!! We are praying for Carson and your safe return home and can't wait to meet our new neighbor.
Jodey, Lynne, and Peyton
HEY DEDE!!!
I havent viewed the blog in awhile because Nanny prints it eveyday (115 pages) & carries them around showing everyone. She's so proud! I'm so proud! We're all so proud of you and happy for you. Papaw told me he talks to you on the phone everyday so I texted you a couple of times but you may not have gotten them! Yall are in my prayers EVERYDAY & I cant wait for ya'll to be home! I hope you've told Carson about his 'Sissy', Im so ready to meet him he is ADORABLE I cant wait for y'all to all get home!! We miss and love you three!!
I LOVE YOU!!!!! Carson doesnt know yet but he has the greatest mom in the entire world, he's so lucky!!
I Love you!!!!
WHITNEY :))))
Dede,
As the unbelievably proud parent of a newly adopted son myself, I completely understand the feelings you're having for the first times in your life. From the first time I set my eyes on my son, the whole world changed. It's an incredibly overwhelming, frightening, wonderful feeling. It is amazing how so many things change instantaneously in your life...all for the better. Cherie and I have been following you on your journey as ours has just begun, too. We are so happy for you, and know you can't wait to get home back to home soil. Cherish every moment, because these past 2 months for us have flown by in a minute's time. Once again, congrats...can't wait to meet the little man.
Ash
Hey Dede...........Kay and I are so happy for you and Carson Turner Farris. Great name by the way rolls off your tongue like John Parker Wilson.........yes the next Bama QB. To the serious stuff, I am so glad all is working out...home soon we all hope and pray. Carson looks soooo happy almost as happy and glowing as his mom. What a great journey you have taken and such a step out in faith to claim your little miracle. Can't wait to come to Florence and see all 3 of you. God bless, safe travel and see you soon. PS We take Wesley to the heathen land if knoxville this weekend so he can learn rocky top while I play Yeah Alabama all the way. ROllllllllllllll Tide Roll. Jim and Kay
Dede, I just found out about this precious son of yours. He is so blessed to have a mother like you. I would love to meet him when you get home. Take care and you will be home soon. Lisa Fullman
miss farris...whenever have i been lost for words..?! and whenever have you had so much to say..?! WOW!!!!! ur hands, ur head, ur heart...the little man is blessed to call you mommy as i know you feel blessed to hear him say it.
lbh.
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